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What Can You Count On When You Don't Know What To Do?
by Robert Knowlton - Executive Success Coach
Mark called me up about four months ago and said he was in
trouble. 48 years old and in his field of work for four and a
half years, he was not happy and not achieving the success he
desired.
His specific profession is not important because when it comes
right down to it, even when you work for someone else you are
your own "business." You are hired for what you can do and it
is a competitive world. Mark only gets paid for what he
produces so it's important to him to produce. At the time, his
confidence was low. Previous lack of success made him doubt his
abilities and his self-esteem was dragging on the ground.
It does not matter what your job or business is; there is always
competition and Charles Darwin's theory proves it's survival of
the fittest. In Mark's case, he was not feeling fit and it was
coming down to survival...could he make it? For a while it was
questionable.
Where do you turn when you don't know what to do or how to be
successful? Mark knew he had it inside, that ability to compete
and succeed. Somewhere along the way, he had lost touch with
the magic and power of his own strengths. Self-doubt appeared
to be the only constant and every time doubt arose, it pulled
the plug out of his effort. He could be easily distracted from
his tasks at hand. Does this sound familiar?
This is not a new challenge. Self-confidence, self-empowerment,
and self-worth all have one thing in common. Self. As early as
350 BC the Oracle of Delphi inscribed, "Know thyself" on the
Greek temple of Apollo. When you are called on to compete in
this world, the only thing you can really call upon is what's
inside yourself.
Mark started the process of exploring his strengths. He began
to identify and acknowledge his wholesome and potent core
qualities. He recognized and began to understand the unique
contribution he made to his customers, co-workers and his
family. Armed with this insight, Mark could now choose to
access these inner qualities to keep himself on track.
This kind of exploration is not as difficult as you might think
and the rewards are truly worth the effort. Deep
self-exploration or soul searching is even easier with a good
guide to assist you.
Mark is a walking, talking example of the power of
self-awareness. When his understanding of his core qualities
and his unique contribution changed, his attitude changed and,
imagine that...his business changed. He's back in shape and
happy to go head to head with the competition. It's not a
matter of survival now; he's happy, he's productive, and he's
successful.
To be truly confident and sustain your competitive edge, it is
helpful to know yourself and the resources you have at your
fingertips. In business, as in life, highly successful
individuals, teams, and companies know their attributes, their
skills and competencies. They know specifically whom to call so
the right job is done by the right person.
When you work from your strengths, you are generally happier and
more productive. You can consciously call on your unique
internal resources whenever you need them.
What you can count on is inside of you. Your own natural
strengths, characteristics and abilities. Make the effort to
get to know them by name and then don't hesitate to call on them
anytime, especially when you don't know what to do.
© 1999, Robert Knowlton, Options Success Coaching and Training
Robert Knowlton is an Executive Success Coach and Trainer.
"I coach individuals to help them achieve personal and business
success aligned with their natural abilities and life purpose."
Visit his web site at:
http://www.SuccessOptions.com/ezine.htm?giftsSF or send an email
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Options Success Coaching and Training
http://www.SuccessOptions.com
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